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One Nighters Can Turn Into Love

Throughout your life I’m sure you’ve had occasional make out sessions that didn’t necessarily turn into long term relationships.  Let’s face it, we’ve all had our fair share of hook ups. Kissing is one thing, but common knowledge is that relationships that start out with sex normally don’t prosper much beyond a booty call. While it may be true that the average relationship quality of those who wait to engage in sexual intercourse is higher, it may not be because of the sex at all.  ”It’s possible for true love to emerge if things start off with a more ‘Sex and the City’ approach, when people spot each other across the room, become sexually involved and then build a relationship,” Sociologist Anthony Paik stated who studied an array of relationship surveys.

As long as both people are open to being in a serious relationship, it doesn’t really matter when they have sex.  If you found yourself in between the sheets with your new man a little earlier than expected, don’t fret.  You never know where it can still lead.

Workout for Better Sex

It’s guaranteed that if you and your partner work out regularly you’re going to have better sex.  That’s a no brainer — but let’s explore why getting fit will take your bedroom session from normal to mind blowing: 1. Confidence: Even if you don’t look as toned as Victoria and David Beckham, if you know you’re in great shape for your body type — when the clothes come off, it’s on.  There’s nothing worse than being insecure between the sheets.  (Ever hear him say, “Can we turn off the lights?”)

2. Stamina:  How many miles can you run? Great, then keep going.  Who says squats are only for the gym?  Sex is a work out.  No?

3. Awareness: Understanding what your body is capable of including likes, dislikes and how strong you are is a big plus when hitting the sack.  Can you do a split?  Few push ups?  You know what I’m getting at… *wink*

Now get to it!  Hit the gym and bring him too! And remember — just one-half hour of romping around between the sheets or hey, on the kitchen sink, in the shower... can burn between 50 – 100 calories.