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One Nighters Can Turn Into Love

Throughout your life I’m sure you’ve had occasional make out sessions that didn’t necessarily turn into long term relationships.  Let’s face it, we’ve all had our fair share of hook ups. Kissing is one thing, but common knowledge is that relationships that start out with sex normally don’t prosper much beyond a booty call.

Undateable: The Grooming Edition

There are so many things that make a man undatable.  I’m sure you can create an indepth list, but take it from me, a girl who finally found love after being single in NYC for years.  Ladies let me tell you, it all begins with grooming. Here’s my list of what makes a guy undateable from head to toe and yes, everywhere in between if you know what I mean.

If the subject has a uni-brow or brows waxed to perfection he is undateable. There is no excuse for a uni-brow. If there was a woman in his life at some point, she would have helped him take care of this situation. So chances are, he looks stupid and has no clue about dating to begin with. Or maybe he actually likes it. Don’t barbers normally do something about those? And Guido brows… don’t get me started.  They’re a strict no, no. This normally signifies that he’ll always be more prim and proper than you are in every way. Undateable.

If the subject has dirty fingernails he is undateable. Dirt underneath the

Men Are Like Black and White Cookies

How many times have you over analyzed a text, conversation or relationship? Reading a message over and over, replaying the way he said “good night” or how he kissed you… sound familiar?

We’re guilty of it, but enough is enough. Wasting your time over analyzing men is one of the biggest mistakes we make.  Why? Because they’re really not that difficult to read.

In all honesty ladies, men are like black and white cookies. If they want to see you, they’ll see you.  If they want to call you, they’ll call.  And if they want to commit, they will.  Plain and simple, men are black and white.

Think about the wasted energy you put into over analyzing and how you can utilize it elsewhere.  Chances are if he’s not calling, making plans with you or committing, he’s just not that into you.  So if you’re still doing the above, don’t waste another second of your time trying to make it seem like he is and you’ll end up with someone who’s worth your time.

The Secret to Better Sex

It’s guaranteed that if you and your partner work out regularly you’re going to have better sex. That’s a no brainer — but let’s explore why getting in shape will take your romp around the bedroom from great to mind blowing:

1. Confidence: Even if you don’t look as toned as Victoria and David Beckham, if you know you’re in great shape for your body type — when the clothes come off, it’s on. There’s nothing worse than being insecure between the sheets. (Ever hear him say, “Can we turn off the lights?”)

2. Stamina: How many miles can you run? Great, then keep going. Who says squats are only for the gym? Sex is a work out. No?…

The Man Manipulation

It’s funny how when you “fall in love” the man of your dreams can have a sense of control over your mind making the powerful woman you once were into a complete stranger to yourself.

I recently read an article in the New York Post about Mr. Ballerina, Mario Lopez and his obsession with fitness.  He admitted to being so into of his own physical condition that he morphed his girlfriend, Courtney Mazza, into what he condsidered to be perfect as well.  Now, Courtney has breast implants and works with a personal trainer everyday.