Ladies, meet Paul, 27, from Union, NJ. He’s completely immersed in the digital world as the SEO Marketing Manager at Lexis Nexis and the Founder of BeyondBeautyBasics.com. My kind of guy… and yes, he’s single!
What’s in your medicine cabinet?
Right now in my medicine cabinet you can find a bunch of products because my Editor-in-Chief of Beyond Beauty Basics, Jennifer Long, tells me to use them. However, I keep it simple: Garnier Fructis Style Surf Hair, Fresh Soy Face Cleanser (bc it smells good), Lancome Hydrix Moisturizing Gel, oh and floss. I think it’s important to look well-groomed whether you are on a date or meeting with a client, not to mention making sure there isn’t some piece of food in between your teeth from last night.
What product can’t you live without and why?
I’m pretty sure I can live without any product but if I had to choose I guess hair product to ensure I don’t look like a crazy bum. That or maybe cologne. I think it’s a good thing when someone tells you you smell “heavenly” or “delicious” – as long as they don’t say you smell like their ex-boyfriend or husband. Now who would want that?
How would you describe your grooming habits?
My grooming habits would be that of any guy that makes sure he takes care of himself without going over the top. I shave most everyday, unless I’ve had a late night which turns into a rough morning. I manscape where guys should manscape to avoid looking like a caveman. I push my cuticles back when I remember after a shower because my third grade health teacher branded it into our minds. LOL Normally I get a haircut once every 2-3 weeks and have my eyebrows cleaned up (not all tweezed-up like some guys in my state), just enough not to spread too far from my actual brow. I moisturize my face, brush my teeth and carry gum with me, do my hair, a spritz of cologne, and I’m out the door.
Have you ever gotten a manicure or pedicure? Why or why not?
I’ll admit it, my ex-girlfriend insisted I try getting both. The verdict? Well, all I kept thinking (while getting high off the strong smell of acrylic in that nail salon) was I could have cut my own nails for FREE , and it was weird having someone tend to my feet. I was told I had nice feet for a guy though. Thanks – I guess.
If you could have one night with any celebrity who would it be and why? More importantly, what would you do?
I would have to say Anne Hathaway. I think she’s beautiful and tall, has a sweet personality, someone you can take home to meet mom, but probably a lioness in the bedroom. I prefer a stylish, confident, open-minded and classy woman who enjoys a little spontaneous adventure and romance. Hmm… that sounded like a Match.com personal. After dinner I’d take her somewhere we can have some drinks, laugh, and dance or listen to some live music or jazz. I’d end the night with some late night stimulating conversation against the city skyline at some quiet rooftop venue.
What’s the first thing you notice about a woman?
The first thing I notice on a woman is her smile. A smiling woman is approachable and tells me that she has a positive spirit or in a delighted state of mind. The curving lips from a woman’s smile can be a bit mesmerizing sometimes.
Do you prefer a woman au naturel or all made up?
I would say either way is fine, I’d prefer a woman feeling comfortable with herself may that be natural or made up. I find that women who feel pretty and comfortable with themselves make for a better day. However, it’s a turn-off if she wears way too much makeup and I mistake her face for a birthday cake or a tranny mannequin.
How about down there?
I’d prefer bare but neatly groomed is okay too. Cleaning it up, in any level, heightens sensitivity, so it might be good for them to do so for themselves. (wink) Changing it up once in a while is also a good idea for as long as it’s not a jungle down there.
When it comes to a woman’s beauty what’s your sweet spot?
My sweet spot is a woman who is confident and modest about her beauty, follows good hygiene and grooming practices, and can carry herself in a stylish and classy way.














Hellooooo Paul!
is it me or do these answers sound like bullshit?? from the description of this guys medicine cabinet and the "quotes" he sounds like a flaming homo. And who the hell does that with any girl stimulating conversation??? that makes him even more gay… every guy would try to go in there and hit it the first night.. wow
and i feel bad for the first man of the week, you totally made this guy look like a tool also with all that airport nonsense… no guy in their right mind should talk to you if they want to get laid again
Paul is definitely NOT gay! lol… If you work with a woman who is immersed in the world of cosmetics, haircare and skincare, you become a casualty of that! I hate to see guys with dry skin. Rather have him "metro" any day.
I think a smile is the first thing he notices when a lady is walking toward him.
LoL… i appreciate your honest response Shaniqua… it’s not to say I wouldn’t enjoy to "hit it the first night" but I enjoy a stimulating conversation so I would know if the woman has half a brain and not the type that would expect all straight guys to want to simply hit it the first night. Plus why make myself look like a tool by revealing all that?
Paul seems like a really respectable guy… not all men are going to try and get the poontang on the first date. Some men are actually searching for more than a booty call… they want something that is real and lasting and not some skank who ends up stalking them or sleeping with their best friend!
Plus I like the fact that he mansacpes… I can’t stand a bushy man!
Shaniqua….just bc u are used to dating a broke baby daddy with no car, doesn’t make successful genuinely good guys gay. You need to reevaluate qualities that draw you towards men!
Like my boyfriend, Paul sounds like just another metro sexual guy. There’s nothing wrong with being metro. I’m so over guys who has no sense of style and hygiene. I completely agree that there are still guys out there who wants to have a real conversation than just "hit it". Why bother on an expensive dinner and drinks if you don’t really want to get to know a person… if a guy is really just after the sex, he can easily just pay a hooker.
Shaniqua…. quit hating. I love this guy and we all know he is probably super rich! i’ll take it
this is awesome hahahha
Ladies, let’s respect all "Men of the Week." You can all have your personal opinions as they’re all not going to suit each and every one of you, but trust me each week there will be something a little different. I’m interested to find out what goes on behind the bathroom door! Come on, have you ever scoped out your guys medicine cabinet? Let’s keep this fun!
And feel free to nominate a single, sexy, successful man yourself.
-Jeannine
this dude is gay.
"swoon"